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Something Needs To Be Done About Morning Drop-Off At Cole!


Last Thursday, while dropping off my two Cole students, the unimaginable almost happened.... A parent who was in a rush, or late to work chose to pass me on the left, while one of my kids was getting out to the car. I jumped out and yelled at this mom, who I happened to know as her daugher used to be in my Girl Scout troop. The mom looked pretty sheepish, came to a quick halt and would not look at me until I got back in my car. Oh, and she was the second car to pass my car while kids were getting out.

While many readers, or parents would say, "Students should not be getting out on the left side of the car," I say, "The drop off rules are pretty simple."

1) Single file and pull all the way to the front of the dropoff area;

2) Do not let students disembark anywhere but in the dropoff area;

3) No passing on the left.

Pretty simple rules, but if you spent a half hour everyday watching the parents drop off at Cole, you would think that most of them can not follow a simple rule, nor do they have any concern for students' safety.

I do not drive my two Cole students in very often for several reasons, but mostly because my taxes pay for the bus that they are supposed to take. I chose to drive them, and some of their friends in this past week because it was so cold!  However, everytime I do drive them in, there are multiple parents breaking the dropoff rules, and many of them are my friends and neighbors.

I am therefore proposing this – that all readers of this blog, when driving their Cole students into school, promise to follow the rules, no matter how late you or your student may be. The safety of our students is more important than yoga class, a tardy notice or, even worse, a student getting hit by a car.

Please forward this to all of your friends who have Cole students, and even to those who will have Cole students next year. Together we can make a difference, show our kids that we too must follow the rules and, bottom line, keep our kids safe!

stephanie

9:40 am on Monday, January 28, 2013

What does this teach our children...that adults can't follow the rules?? I too drop my child off in the morning. She refuses to get out of the car until we are in the drop off area unlike the majority of kids who are getting out on the front sidewalk. I am amazed by the number of parents who can't seem to follow the rules. Whats the rush folks?

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Mutato

12:23 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

I think they should have a school employee out there every day. Seems without that, a lot of ignorant, impatient parents just do whatever they want. Heck, they have safety people on buses to check after every stop, why not here?

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Connor Banton

12:34 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

Jeez when i went to cole they had these big yellow vehicles that picked up and dropped off students, oh ya theyre called SCHOOL BUSES

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Eric Carpenter

1:18 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

One problem I see is that people pull up but their kids aren't quite prepared for the drop-off, or they insist upon holding some sort of conversation before the kid gets out. I won't pass anyone on the left, but it sure is tempting when someone's idling in front of you for a minute or two, especially when they've parked directly in front of the school. This oughta be a 10-second operation. Pull up, open the door, say goodbye, shut the door, drive off.

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John M Sullivan

5:56 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

The problem is the layout of the drop off area. The parents do not want to drive all the way to the end and have their child walk back toward the school. If they would reverse it so when pulling in you are driving toward the school and not away all the gaps would not happen. So make the entrance the exit and the exit the entrance and no kid will want to get out of the car at the furthest point. They will wait til they are closer to the school. Where do I send my bill?

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EG Parent

6:23 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

THE PROBLEM IS PARENTS NOT FOLLOWING THE RULES! THAT LITTLE BIT OF WALK IS HOW FAR, AND SOMEONE IS ALWAYS GOING TO BE AT THE END OF THE LINE... AND SEND YOUR BILL FOR WHAT?

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Heather Larkin

10:02 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

The idea of switching the entrance and exit is interesting... but the larger point is that just because we don't like the layout or the drop off rules does not mean we get to just carry on the way we see fit. Parents and students need to follow the procedure!

John M Sullivan

7:39 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

Yes someone is alway at the end of the line, in this case the end of the line is closer to the school and too tempting. Therefore the kids start to get out and more so on bad weather days when parents are more willing to drive the child instead of having them wait for the bus. Yes, parents should follow the rules but a better process would help in addition to your "promise" feature. The bill was for my traffic engineering but I will waive it, if you promise to not jump out of your car anymore.

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Kimberly Sizelove

7:40 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

Why not have eighth graders be traffic controllers and safety guards? They did this at my daughter's elementary school last year in Massachusetts and it worked perfectly. They even said 'good morning' and opened the door for the kids sometimes.

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PT Mom

8:55 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

I'm still confused about why you are letting your child get out on the left side of the car. I've sat in that drop-off line many times, so I'm sympathetic to the craziness. We could all make it better by getting there a couple of minutes earlier and having your kid gather everything up so he/she is ready to get out when you are in the appropriate "drop off" spot. Plus, never letting your child get out on that side!

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EG Parent

9:44 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

PT Mom- I have 2 children who go to Cole and often car pool my neighbors as well. It is a single lane, no passing on the left so they students can get out on the car which ever side they are sitting. . I did state in my original blog some readers would feel this way, but I am not breaking any rules. I pulled all the way forward, allowed the students to get out on the side of the car which they were seated, and properly. What if one of our Cole students,maybe your student happens to slip slipped on the snowy pavement and slides under the passing car's tires? My point is that we as parents need to follow the rules...simply stated...1) pull all the way forward, 2) single file,3) no passing on the left.. This is not just about my kids, it is about all of our kids safety.

EG (arrogant) parent

9:28 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

Seriously EG parent??? There's lots to be done out there in the world. I don't think SHOUTY caps are necessary. And does anyone even know what an aerobics class is????

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EG Parent

9:50 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

Originally I was not going to reply to this comment. I wrote in all caps to make a point that it is the parents who need to follow the rules, the safety rules, and while changing the in and out , or entrance and exit of the school may help, it is we as parents, as adults who need to follow. the rules.. for all of our children's safety... This is not just about my kids, but all of our kids. Mrs Meyer has sent numerous e-mail reminders about the procedure for drop off and see that she just sent another tonight. I am glad.. maybe some polite discourse on the EG Patch will get parents to step up to the plate and follow the rules.. for all of our children;s safety sake.

PT Mom

11:49 pm on Monday, January 28, 2013

EG Parent, I understand that technically you are following the rules, as there isn't a rule about only letting kids out on the right side of the car. My point is, if people are going to continue to not follow directions (as is likely the case), we can all keep our kids safer by not letting them out on the left side of the car.

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Another EG parent

8:10 am on Tuesday, January 29, 2013

To bring up another issue, why the heck am I driving my daughter every day in the first place? Unfortunately despite having 7 children on the straight stretch of our street, the school bus company insists on having the bus stop be around the corner where we can not monitor our children. Their reply to a request to have the stop be closer is "it is your job to get your children to the bus stop safely". So my reply is to drive my child, as are many parents on our street. If the school bus company would be more open to parent requests to move bus stops, perhaps we would have fewer drop offs.

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EG Parent and Resident

8:26 am on Tuesday, January 29, 2013

I know your frustration!
The bus company is the worst. I'm not referring to the drivers. We have had excellent drivers throughout the years.
If you have a concern and phone the bus co, you get arrogant responses. They are IMPOSSIBLE to work with and seem to be open to no parent requests.
I have to drive my kids to the bus stop.

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JavaJen

11:47 am on Tuesday, January 29, 2013

I have a similar frustration - Why is there no Cole bus stop on the Hill this year? There are several Cole students in my neighborhood. My son bikes to Cole in the fall and spring, but at this time of the year it's too cold and dark in the morning.

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Chad Ochocinco

6:37 pm on Saturday, February 2, 2013

EG is a very safe town, people around the country and around the world deal with much more than having to walk unsupervised around a corner. Trying to shelter kids like this is what is wrong with parenting in America.
http://i.imgur.com/0uPV12W.jpg?2

EG Parent and Resident

8:17 am on Tuesday, January 29, 2013

The same happens at Meadowbrook Farms. This year has been the worst.
Parents passing you on the left, as they can NOT wait in the car line until your child has exited, and you drive away. It is ridiculous.
Some even chose to park in the drop off line. They get out and walk their child into the building. Seriously! It is very frustrating.
Yes, and I have a child at Cole. I've experienced cars whizzing past me too. I notice that it is usually the same people, over and over again.

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Jennifer Condon

9:59 am on Tuesday, January 29, 2013

I have to admit that I will let my child exit in front of the school if the traffic is stopped anyway, but then I wait to exit and not pass.
My frustration is the parents who follow the direction and don't let out there but then only pull into the drop off lane 3 or 4 car lengths so their child doesn't have to walk rather than pull all the way up to the blue sign to allow lots of cars in the loop. Sometimes it is these same parents who's child is not ready to get out or then gives final instructions to them after they get out.
If the front car pulled all the way to the blue sign before stopping and everyone was ready to get out as soon as it was safe to do so, it would do a lot to shorten the drive through line and I too would go back to being the mean mom who makes them wait when I do drive (which has been more often the past couple weeks due to the cold)

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John M Sullivan

10:19 am on Tuesday, January 29, 2013

I'm telling you change the direction. The comments Jennifer made happenn all the time and create a chain reaction. We can call the new procedure, " flip flop the Cole drop". Archie would approve.

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Angry White Male

8:09 pm on Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Since many parents obviously aren't using the buses provided after demands by parents to provide public transportation. Perhaps I could be reimbursed for my taxes that go to pay for buses that aren't being used? Grow up you whiny little entitled nickle millionaires.

We live in a very safe community, and the "kids" who are really 12-14 years old can walk safely two blocks to a bus stop. When I drive through neighborhoods like Greenwood, Buttonwoods, and Oakland Beach, kids are playing in the street and having a great time. Here in EG they are all locked in their McMansions playing video games, and texting on their brand new I phones.

Yes, All the adults need to follow the rules. Not just the "Non-Special" adults.
No, we shouldn't be driving are kids in the first place!

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Chad Ochocinco

6:38 pm on Saturday, February 2, 2013

somebody who gets it, thank you

EG (arrogant) parent

8:34 pm on Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Yes!!!! The parents who drive their kids to middle school will probably be going on their first job interview with them.

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Heather Tibbitts

9:58 pm on Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Please re-read the article. The author stated: "I do not drive my two Cole students in very often for several reasons, but mostly because my taxes pay for the bus that they are supposed to take. I chose to drive them, and some of their friends in this past week because it was so cold!"

I remind you that it was single-digit temperatures with a stiff wind last week at Cole morning bus time (just before 7am). Since the bus stops are not located in front of a student house (and they won't wait for you to run out of the house even if it were), many parents chose to drive last week. I waited at the bus stop in the car, only to have the bus pass by without stopping since we were not standing out in the cold.

I'll also remind you that we have a variety of income levels here in EG. Yes, we do have quite a few households at the upper end of the income spectrum. However, we also have folks at the lower end and everywhere in between. I don't know which streets you frequent, but I often see children riding bikes and playing outside.

Sarcastic generalizations do nothing to advance the conversation.

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Chad Ochocinco

10:26 pm on Saturday, February 2, 2013

@Heather, when I was young and waiting for the bus in the cold I wore an extra layer.

EG Parent

7:29 am on Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Thank you Heather... The point of my blog was to make people aware of the issues and maybe bring to the parents attention their dangerous habits, for lack of a better word. Polite discourse, not name calling or mud slinging is how we as adults should be behaving. Hence, why I have not responded to many comments.. This is not a contest, it was created to bring community awareness to the Cole parents.. which it has!

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Raul Jamieson Miguel

8:52 am on Wednesday, January 30, 2013

When I was a boy, I used to hike 3 miles to school during blizzard conditions ... How quickly times have changed ... This generation is one of the most uncoordinated, lazy ones in the history of the universe.

Not saying you are wrong for your opinions and "awareness," but maybe it just illustrates a greater problem with society, the same one where God forbid our kids carry textbooks, lets get them an iPAD for education purposes.

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EWPALMER

1:52 pm on Thursday, January 31, 2013

OK ---- I MUST SAY MY PIECE ------ My daughter does get out on the left side, because our van does not open on the right anymore in the SAFER area of the back. I do not know how many GOTTA GO --- PARENTS have passed MY DAUGHTER on the left as she is exiting --------- PUTTING MY DAUGHTERS LIFE AT RISK!!!!!!! It is INSANE just FOLLOW the RULES SET UP TO KEEP EVERYONE'S CHILD/CHILDREN SAFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT is Your Hurry?, you only get out of the area moments sooner.......... PLEASE KEEP ALL CHILDREN SAFE!!!!!!!!!! Thank you to the original author, maybe this conversation will change things, when the school principals, reminders of the rules have unfortunately not -------- EWPalmer

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